In
loving memory of My Father Sheng Chyi Sam Wu (October 1, 1935 – July 30,
2023)
By Jo Wu
As I write this tribute to my 87-year-old father, Shengqi
Wu, who is affectionately known as Uncle Sam, my heart is heavy. He is
a smiling, optimistic and generous person. He can easily talk to young
and old and has a great sense of humor. His resilience, positive mindset,
and sheer willpower to recover from the medical struggle were extraordinary.
I think of the incredible impact he had on my life and the lives of so
many others.
In Taiwan, he conducted a five-year survey of waterworks and hydroelectric
dams. He came to the United States to pursue graduate studies in civil
engineering and then designed railway train cars for 15 years (1967-1982).
At night, he would transform into the owner of the first Chinese restaurant
and bar owner in small Missouri (1974-1980). His hard work and determination
really inspired me.
For 65 years, my father was not only a faithful husband to my mother,
Sally, but also an engaged father. Despite his father's busy schedule,
he found time to participate in the community and build long-lasting friendships.
When my brother Jim and I were younger, he served as Scout leader and
Girl Scout County treasurer. We would drive across the country with family
and friends. These budget-limited summers taught us a lot of strategy
card games, brought us closer together, and created lasting memories.
Later in life, Sam and Sally went on to travel countless times, exploring
33 countries on six continents. These adventures broadened his horizons
and enriched his understanding of different cultures.
My father's love for sports was evident, he played softball at a young
age and watched sports on TV whenever he had the chance. Tennis became
his weekend hobby, and golf was his daily leisure until he was 84 years
old. He embraces these activities enthusiastically, always encouraging
friends and strangers to join him. He is an avid bridge player who learns
through newspaper clippings and takes bridge classes at the Taiwan Center
every week.
My father had an insatiable thirst for knowledge and a keen interest in
the world around him. He enjoys discussing stocks, current news, and politics,
and having thought-provoking conversations. His second career was spent
approximately 40 years (1982-2019) as a real estate agent in San Diego,
making a lasting impact on the lives of the people he served.
He is left behind his beloved wife Sally, daughter Joe, daughter-in-law
Jennifer, and beloved grandchildren Jessica (27), Natalie (25), Jenna
(25) and Jared (22).
In memory of my father, our family kindly asks for donations in his name
to the San Diego Taiwan Lutheran Church or the San Diego Taiwan Cultural
Association. These organizations are close to his heart and reflect his
passion for supporting the Taiwan issue and protecting our cultural heritage.
As I bid farewell to my beloved father, I am relieved that his spirit
will live on in our hearts forever. His trustworthy character and generous
kindness will continue to guide and inspire us. May his soul find eternal
peace, and may we honor him with the same compassion and devotion he embodied
in his extraordinary life.
My heart is heavy as I write this tribute to my father
Wu Sheng Chyi, age 87, who was affectionately known as Uncle Sam. He was
a man who possessed a ready smile, optimistic attitude, and a generous
spirit. He could easily converse with both young and old, with much humor.
His resilience, positive mindset, and sheer willpower to recuperate from
medical battles was exceptional. I am reminded of the incredible impact
he had on my life and the lives of so many others.
In Taiwan he surveyed waterworks and hydroelectric dams for 5 years. He
came to the US for graduate studies in civil engineering, and subsequently
designed railroad train cars for 15 years (1967-1982). In the evenings,
he would transform into the owner and barkeeper of the first Chinese restaurant
in a small Missouri town (1974-1980). His hard work and determination
were truly inspiring to me.
My father was not only a devoted husband to my mother Sally for 65 years,
but he was also an actively engaged dad. Despite his busy schedule, my
father found time to be involved in the community and build long-lasting
friendships. While my brother Jim and I were young, he served as the Cub
Scout den leader and Girl Scouts county treasurer. We would take driving
trips across the country with family friends . These budget summer vacations
taught us lots of strategy card games, brought us all closer together,
and created lasting memories. Later in life, Sam and Sally would continue
on numerous travels, exploring 33 countries across six continents. These
adventures broadened his horizons and enriched his understanding of different
cultures.
My father’s love for sports was evident as he played softball as a young
adult, and watched TV sports whenever he could. Later tennis became his
weekend passion, but golf was his daily escape, even until age 84. He
embraced these activities with enthusiasm, always encouraging friends
and strangers alike to join him. He was an avid bridge player, clipped
newspaper bridge games to study, and would attend weekly bridge sessions
at the Taiwanese center.
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